As someone who has been Very Online™ for the majority of their life, I’ve hesitated to blog again. I did it back when fashion blogging was a new, cool thing to do. I ran a beauty blog and YouTube series for an exhaustingly long time. While an editor in New York for the now-defunct Gurl.com, I shared a lot about my personal life and served as a sex and relationship “expert” (lol) in another YouTube show.

For the past three years, my social media presence has become less regular. Maybe it’s a result of being a very busy adult. Maybe it’s getting injured and having multiple surgeries — no one should be…